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Online abuse

Abuse through phones, apps and the internet is real abuse. If someone is threatening you, watching you or sharing images of you, it’s not your fault, and help is available.

Before you read. If you think someone can see what you do on this device, read staying safe online first, or use a device they can’t reach.

Every fact on this page comes from legislation.gov.uk, GOV.UK and the helplines’ own websites. We last checked it on 6 October 2026. Each helpline shows the date we last checked it. This is general information, not legal advice.

What online abuse can look like

  • threats, insults or harassment by message, email or social media
  • someone tracking where you are or reading your messages
  • someone sharing, or threatening to share, intimate images or videos of you
  • someone threatening to share intimate images unless you pay them or send more
  • fake accounts set up to frighten or embarrass you

Online harassment can come from a stranger, but online abuse is often part of other abuse, such as domestic abuse.

If intimate images of you have been shared, or someone is threatening to

It was not your fault, even if you shared the images with that person yourself. Sharing intimate images without consent is sometimes called ‘revenge porn’. Specialist help is available.

Revenge Porn Helpline

run by SWGfL

For: adults aged 18 or over living in the UK whose intimate images have been shared, or threatened to be shared, without consent

0345 6000 459

for adults aged 18 and over in the UK; 10am to 4pm, Monday to Friday, but currently email only on Fridays; not bank holidays; calls cost the same as a standard 01 or 02 landline number; email too

Call the Revenge Porn HelplineWebsite: Revenge Porn Helpline

Checked 7 Oct 2026

If someone is threatening to share images unless you pay them, this is sometimes called sextortion. The Revenge Porn Helpline’s advice is: don’t pay, stop all contact and block them, keep anything that could be evidence, and report it to the police.

If you are under 18, Childline can help. Its Report Remove tool helps young people under 18 in the UK report sexual images or videos of themselves and get them removed from the internet. You can also call Childline on 0800 1111, free from most landlines and mobiles in the UK, 24 hours a day, every day; calls do not show on your phone bill; 1-2-1 chat online too.

If you think you’re being watched

Some people use hidden software, sometimes called spyware or stalkerware, to track what someone does on their phone or computer.

Refuge’s Tech Safety website has guides to help you secure your phone, online accounts and devices.

Our guide to staying safe online explains more.

What the law says

Many kinds of online abuse are crimes in England and Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland, although each has its own laws. They include:

  • sharing, or threatening to share, an intimate photo or video of someone without their consent
  • stalking, including monitoring someone’s use of the internet, email or messages, which is sometimes called cyberstalking
  • sending threats, such as a threat to kill or seriously harm someone

Reporting it

Call 999 in an emergency. For crimes that are not an emergency, you can report online through your police force’s website, or call 101. Calls to 999 and 101 are free. You can also get support without reporting.

More support

Our Support Directory lists organisations for online abuse and stalking.

This page gives information, not legal advice.

Where this information comes from

Checked on 6 October 2026. Laws and helpline hours can change, so check the official pages before you act.

If you’re worried that someone can see what you do online, our staying safe online guide is a good next step.

Read the staying safe online guide