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Support for male rape, sexual abuse and domestic abuse against men

This page is for you if you are a man or boy affected by domestic abuse, rape or sexual abuse, recently or in the past. It is also for the people who support you. You contact each organisation directly, using the details on its card.

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ManKind Initiative

Across the UK

Men experiencing domestic abuse from a current or former wife, partner (including a same-sex partner) or husband, and their friends, family, neighbours, colleagues and employers. Its confidential helpline gives listening support, information and signposting, including to local services, emergency housing and legal help.

0808 800 1170

free, 10am to 4pm, Monday to Friday, not bank holidays; calls do not show on your bill; or 01823 334 244 if you have inclusive minutes

Call ManKind InitiativeWebsite: ManKind Initiative

Checked 7 Oct 2026

Mankind UK

England and Wales

People aged 18 and over who were sexually abused or assaulted at any time in their lives and want a male-focused service, including non-binary, trans and intersex people. Counselling online across England and Wales, or face to face in Hove, Sussex, at no charge or for a donation; you refer yourself online and there is a waiting list. It is not a crisis service, and it is a different charity from the ManKind Initiative.

Answerphone

01273 911680

answerphone only: leave your details if you have trouble with the online form; not a helpline; email too

Or refer yourself with the online form on its website

Call Mankind UKWebsite: Mankind UK

Checked 7 Oct 2026

Men’s Advice Line (run by Respect)

Across the UK

Men, including trans and non-binary people, who are experiencing or have experienced domestic abuse, and the friends, family and frontline workers supporting them. Its advisors give emotional support, practical advice and information by phone and webchat, and point you to other services.

0808 801 0327

free from landlines and mobiles in the UK, and calls do not show on itemised bills; 10am to 5pm, Monday to Friday; webchat 9am to 10am, Monday to Friday

Call Men’s Advice Line (run by Respect)Website: Men’s Advice Line

Checked 7 Oct 2026

Men’s Advisory Project (MAP NI)

Northern Ireland

Men experiencing domestic abuse in Northern Ireland, including men who have left an abusive relationship and still feel its effects. It offers confidential counselling, and information and referral to other services. Its website also asks men who are being stalked to seek its help.

Belfast office

028 9024 1929

first contact is always by phone; Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm; Foyle office 028 7116 0001; email too

Call Men’s Advisory Project (MAP NI)Website: MAP NI

Checked 7 Oct 2026

Safeline

England and Wales

Anyone aged 3 and over affected by sexual abuse, and their families: free counselling and therapy face to face in Warwickshire, and by phone or online across England and Wales for people aged 16 and over who were abused as children. It runs the National Male Survivor Helpline for men, boys and non-binary people affected by sexual abuse, and the people who support them.

National Male Survivor Helpline

0808 800 5005

free from UK landlines and mobiles; Monday, Tuesday and Thursday 10am to 3pm; online chat at the same times

Call SafelineWebsite: Safeline

Checked 7 Oct 2026

SurvivorsUK

Across the UK

Men, boys, trans and non-binary people who have experienced sexual abuse at any time in their lives, and the people who support them. Its national helpline and its group work (mostly online) are open to anyone in the UK; counselling (age 13 and over) and ISVA support are for people in London.

National Male and Non-Binary Survivors Helpline

0808 801 0332

phone 10am to 12pm, Monday to Friday; webchat, text and WhatsApp 07860 031252, 12pm to 8pm every day; email too

Call SurvivorsUKWebsite: SurvivorsUK

Checked 7 Oct 2026

We checked each listing against the organisation’s own website on 7 October 2026. Services and opening hours can change, so check the organisation’s website too. You contact each organisation directly: we never ask for your story.

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